John Jacob Astor VI

John Jacob "Jakey" Astor VI (August 14, 1912 – June 26, 1992) was an American socialite, shipping businessman, and member of the Astor family. Dubbed the "Titanic Baby", he was best known for his affiliation with the RMS Titanic, being an unborn survivor of the sinking. He was born four months after his father, Colonel John Jacob Astor IV, died in the sinking of the Titanic.

Early life
Astor was born in New York City on August 14, 1912. His parents John Jacob "Jack" Astor IV (1864—1912) and socialite Madeleine Talmage Force (1893—1940) had married on September 9, 1911. Their union sparked much controversy not only due to their 29-year age difference but also since Colonel Astor had only previously been divorced from his first wife socialite Ava Lowle Willing (1868—1958) two years earlier in November 1909. The couple was returning home aboard the Titanic after about three months of honeymooning in Egypt and Europe. Madeleine was five months pregnant with Jakey when her husband put her in one of the ship's lifeboats. She was rescued eight hours after her husband went down with the ship. Jakey's godmother was Colonel Astor's sister philanthropist Caroline Schermerhorn "Carrie" Astor (1861–1948) while his godfathers were Carrie's son Marshall Orme Wilson, Jr. (1885–1966) and Madeleine's cousin Philip Lyndon Dodge.

After Jack's death, Madeleine raised their son in Newport, Rhode Island as part of the Astor family. She would later remarry to banker William Karl Dick (1888–1953) in June 1916 and boxer Enzo Fiermonte (1908–1993) in November 1933. Fiermonte had taught her sons boxing. Through Dick, she would have two more sons: William Force Dick (1917—1961) and John Henry Dick II (1919—1995). Jakey, who had become close to Dick, highly opposed the union with Fiermonte and repeatedly tried to convince his mother to end the relationship. He and his mother frequently argued over the union. This caused a rift between the two though they later reconciled within several months of the marriage. When asked if his mother was marrying Fiermonte, he responded "Unfortunately, it's true".

Jakey graduated from St. George's School in Newport, Rhode Island and from Harvard University.

Inheritance
Under the terms of Colonel Astor's will, Madeleine received relatively little from her husband's $85 million estate (equivalent to approximately $0 in 2024 dollars). This value included his estate in Rhinebeck and his yacht, the Noma. William Vincent Astor (1891–1959), the Colonel's son from his first marriage, received $69 million (equivalent to approximately $0 in 2024 dollars), while the Colonel's daughter from his first marriage, Ava Alice Muriel Astor (1902–1956), received a $10 million trust fund (equivalent to approximately $0 in 2024 dollars).

The Colonel's 19-year-old widow Madeleine received the annual income from a $5 million trust fund (equivalent to approximately $0 in 2024 dollars), sweetened by an annual payment of $500,000, (equivalent to approximately $0 in 2024 dollars) as well as use of his New York mansion 65th & Fifth Avenue, all its furnishings, and his Newport mansion Beechwood and all of its furnishings, the pick of whichever luxury limo she wanted from his collection, and five of his prized horses, provided that she did not remarry. While not listed by name, his father's will mentioned that any surviving child other than his children Vincent and Ava would receive a bequest of $3 million, to be held in trust until the child reached age 21. Jakey inherited the $3 million on his 21st birthday, which by that point had grown to $5 million (equivalent to approximately $0 in 2024 dollars). When Madeleine died in late March 1940, she left him a diamond solitaire ring worth $50,000 (equivalent to approximately $0 in 2024 dollars) and a pearl necklace worth $1,525 (equivalent to approximately $0 in 2024 dollars).

Elder half-brother Vincent's contempt for Madeleine led him to believe that Jakey was not even a biological Astor. Having despised his younger half-brother since birth, Vincent left him nothing in his will. Jakey felt cheated and resentfully stated Vincent "had the legal, not the moral right to keep all the money". After Vincent died childless in early February 1959, Jakey sued Vincent's widow Roberta Brooke Russell (1902—2007) to inherit his money. He was convinced that Vincent was "mentally incompetent" when signing his last will in June 1958 due to frequent smoking and alcoholism, though Brooke insisted Vincent was "fully competent". While Vincent was hospitalized, Brooke would often bring him liquor. Jakey accused her of using the liquor to influence the will in her favor. Jakey ended up settling for $250,000 (equivalent to approximately $0 in 2024 dollars). The rest of money remained with the Vincent Astor foundation and Brooke.

Marriages
Astor became engaged to Eileen Sherman Gillespie (December 21, 1915 — July 27, 2008), the elder daughter of Lieutenant Lawrence Lewis Gillespie (1876—1940) and Irene Muriel Augusta Sherman (1887—1972), in early December 1933. Irene's parents were businessman William Watts Sherman (1842 — January 22, 1912) and Sophia Augusta Brown (1867—1947). They planned to marry on February 6, 1934. However, she called off the wedding on January 22, 1934 after a bitter argument. Heartbroken, he went to Shanghai shortly afterwards to grieve, returning to America in early May 1934. Astor blamed her parents for interfering with the relationship. He once suggested they could potentially reconcile, stating "I was willing to marry her, and if I were to think about it, I might still be willing to marry her." Eileen's daughter Marguerite "Margy" Slocum said of him: "She felt that he had grown up lonely..... He was a bit eccentric, and she felt he wasn't mature enough to get married." Eileen would later marry in 1940 Foreign Service officer John Jermain Slocum (March 1, 1914 — August 12, 1997), roommate of banker/philanthropist David Rockefeller (born 1915).

A few weeks after returning from Shanghai, he became engaged to Eileen's close friend socialite Ellen Tuck "Tucky" French (December 10, 1915 — September 5, 1974), the elder daughter of Francis Ormond "Frank" French II (November 27, 1888 — June 17, 1962) and Eleanor Livingston Burrill (August 2, 1891 — December 18, 1974). They married on June 30, 1934 at Trinity Church in Newport, Rhode Island. Tucky was a first cousin of Rhode Island Governor William Henry Vanderbilt III (1901—1981), and had previously been attracted to Jakey while he was engaged to Eileen. Along with Eileen's sister Phyllis, Tucky was scheduled to be a bridesmaid at Jakey and Eileen's wedding. The couple had one son, William Backhouse Astor III (1935—2008), and divorced in May 1943. At the time of their son's birth, Jakey was working at the International Mercantile Marine Company. Her sister Virginia Middleton French (April 10, 1917 — August 31, 2011) would marry William Force Dick on December 18, 1941 before her marriage to Philip B. Pool. The two had respectively served as matron of honor and usher to Astor and Tucky's wedding. Astor served as an usher and Tucky was matron of honor to Virgina and William's wedding. Virgina and Vincent were appointed as the godparents of William Backhouse Astor III.

Jakey's second marriage was to Gertrude Gretsch (1923 — January 16, 1999), the daughter of Walter and Gertrude Gretsch, in New York City on September 18, 1944. The couple had a daughter, Mary Jacqueline "Jackie" Astor (born 1949). Their marriage ended in divorce on August 2, 1954 after being separated for four years, though the Mexican divorce was ruled invalid in 1956. An American divorce soon followed. In 1961, Gertrude Astor remarried to Sonio Coletti-Perucca.

He married a third time to Dolores Margaret "Dolly" Fullman (born c. 1928) on August 6, 1954 but they separated soon after returning from their honeymoon and divorced.

His fourth wife was Sue Sandford; she predeceased him, circa 1985.

Death
Astor died in Miami Beach, Florida, in 1992 at the age of 79. His body was returned to New York for burial with his parents in the Trinity Church Cemetery. At the time of his death, he was survived by his son, daughter, three grandsons, and youngest half-brother.

Descendants

 * William Backhouse Astor III (July 19, 1935 — September 24, 2008), investment banker, served as president of New Vernon Fire Department from 1972—1974. He married and later divorced Charlotte Ann Fisk (April 22, 1936 — October 13, 2008), daughter of Earl Ellsworth Fisk and Florence Leavitt. They had 2 sons:
 * William Backhouse Astor IV (born 1959)
 * Gregory Todd Astor (born 1966) portrayed Colonel Astor in "Titanic the Musical" in April 2012. He married c. 1991 Robin Rhodes. They have three children:
 * Alexandra Ellen "Allie" Astor (born c. 1997)
 * Rebecca Charlotte "Becca" Astor (born c. 1998)
 * Stephen William Astor (born c. 2002)
 * Mary Jacqueline "Jackie" Astor (born June 1949), married in 1984 to John Rozet Drexel IV (born 1945), son of John Rozet Drexel III (1919—2007) and Mildred Sophia Noreen Stonor (1922—2012). He is a great-great-grandson of banker Anthony Joseph Drexel and a grandson of Ralph Francis Julian Stonor. They have one son:
 * Nicholas Astor Drexel (born c. 1988)

Name confusion
Even though some sources refer to Jakey as John Jacob V, John Jacob Astor, 1st Baron Astor of Hever (1886—1971) was born first and therefore is actually John Jacob Astor V. Jakie Astor (1918—2000), youngest brother of David Astor, is John Jacob Astor VII, and the 3rd Baron Astor of Hever is John Jacob Astor VIII. Jakey is sometimes (incorrectly) referred to as John Jacob III.

References in popular culture
Astor's name is shown on one of the page buttons on an apartment building in Mel Brooks' 2005 movie musical The Producers.