Military Wiki

Evelyn Grubb was the wife of an American Vietnam War Air Force pilot who became a prisoner of war, she was also a co-founder and then later served as the national coordinator of the National League of Families,[1][2][3] a nonprofit organization that worked on behalf of Vietnam-era Missing in Action (MIA) and Prisoner of War (POW) Families. Grubb also oversaw the creation of the famous "You Are Not Forgotten" POW/MIA flag that still flies in front of all U.S. Post Offices, many firehouses and police stations, all major U.S. Military installations as well as most veterans organization chapters in the United States.[1][2]

During the Vietnam war Grubb served as the Leagues liaison to the White House, the United Nations and the Paris Peace Talks.[2][3] Grubb was also the co-author, along with Carol Jose, of the award-winning book "You Are Not Forgotten: A Family’s Quest for Truth and The Founding of the National League of Families" about her personal struggle as the wife of a prisoner of war, and about her experiences helping to found the National League of Families.[2]

Husbands Capture / Founding of the National League of Families[]

Evelyn Grubb was living in the Petersburg, Virginia area as an Air Force wife when her husband, Major Wilmer Newlin Grubb, was shot down over North Vietnam and became a prisoner of war (POW) in 1966,[2][3][4] and after frustrations with the U.S. government withholding information on the status of her husband and other POW and MIA soldiers and pilots, as well as the Pentagon's practice of pressuring affected families not to speak publicly about the status of their captured or missing loved ones, Evelyn Grubb co-founded the National League of Families with Air Force POW wife Mary Crowe, also living in Hampton at the time, and with Sybil Stockdale, a Navy pilot's wife living in Coronado, California, whose husband was also a POW.[2][3][5] Another major impetus for starting the organization was that Grubb's combat casualty benefits, as well as those of many other POW and MIA wives, were delayed due to a Pentagon policy of waiting to confirm that U.S. soldiers and pilots who had become POWs or MIAs were not deserters, which was causing POW and MIA families great financial hardship at the time.[2] At the time that her benefits were being withheld, Grubb had four children, including a newborn child.[2] Grubb was later instrumental in reversing this policy.[2]

The Leagues purpose from the beginning was to bring pressure to bear on all governments involved in the conflict in order to improve treatment of prisoners of war (POWs), and their families, and to bring resolution to the status of many missing in action (MIA) soldiers and pilots.[3][5] The League continues to this day in this work.[3][5]

After years of Evelyn Grubb's work on behalf of Vietnam POW and MIA families, the Government of North Vietnam announced that her husband had died years earlier in captivity, a fact that they had knowingly withheld for eight years.[2][3] Evelyn Grubb died of breast cancer in 2005.[1][3]

POW/MIA Flag[]

Grubb oversaw the Leagues development of the now-famous "You Are Not Forgotten" POW/MIA flag in the early 1970s.[6][7] The original design for the flag was created by the artist William Graham Wilkin III after a POW wife in Florida conceptualized it.[8] Evelyn Grubb was then also a driving force in gaining the flags adoption by the military, the U.S. Postal Service and other federal service agencies.[9] Eventually the flag became widely popular and adoption of its use began to spread on its own, as the flag became a national symbol of Vietnam war remembrance.[10] The flag, with the now widely recognized "You Are Not Forgotten, POW/MIA" logo is still flown in front of all U.S. post offices, all major U.S. military installations, and most fire stations, police stations, many state level agencies and also most veterans organizations chapters across the United States today, and is almost always present at most local and national veterans events in the United States.[11] The flag is consequently still visible to millions of Americans on a daily basis.[12]

Early life[]

Grubb was born in Pittsburgh and graduated from Pennsylvania State University.[2][6] She received a master's degree in education from Penn State in 1954[6] Her husband was serving in Vietnam, and was then captured while she was living in Virginia.[2]



Grubb wrote the award-winning book, with co-author Carol Jose, entitled "You Are Not Forgotten: A Family’s Quest for Truth and The Founding of the National League of Families". A significant portion of the book was written by them during the three years up to Grubb's death from breast cancer in December 2005, but the book was still unfinished at the time, and Jose promised Grubb that it would be finished.[2] The book was published by Vandemere Press in 2008.[2]

Book Award[]

The book won the 2009 Indie Book Award, in the "History" category.[7]

Forward in Book by Former US Secretary of State Henry Kissinger[]

Former US Secretary of State Henry Kissinger, who met with Grubb many times during her tenure as the Leagues National Coordinator, wrote the forward to the book.[2] In the forward he emphasizes the importance of learning from some of the difficulties faced by Grubb and other POW and MIA wives of that era:[2]

....It is only through the recording of incidents like the ones you will read about here, in the pages of You Are Not Forgotten, that we can study them, and hopefully learn from that experience.[2]

C-Span Segment[]

In November 2008, the cable television channel C-SPAN did a special segment on Evelyn Grubbs life and the book, hosting a talk given by the books co-author Carol Jose.[8]

See also[]


  1. 1.0 1.1 1.2 "Evelyn Grubb, 74; Advocated Humane Treatment for POWs of Vietnam Era"Los Angeles Times Obituary, January 04, 2006,
  2. 2.00 2.01 2.02 2.03 2.04 2.05 2.06 2.07 2.08 2.09 2.10 2.11 2.12 2.13 2.14 2.15 2.16 Grubb, Evelyn; Carol Jose (1 September 2008). You Are Not Forgotten: A Family's Quest for Truth and the Founding of the National League of Families. St. Petersburg, FL: Vandamere Press. ISBN 978-0-918339-71-3.  Cite error: Invalid <ref> tag; name "Jose, Carol; 2008" defined multiple times with different content
  3. 3.0 3.1 3.2 3.3 3.4 3.5 3.6 3.7 "Evelyn Fowler Grubb, 74, Leader Of a Group Supporting P.O.W.'s". New York Times. 4 January 2006. Retrieved 2006-01-06. 
  4. Wainwright, Loudon; "When Johnny Comes Marching Home Again - or doesn't", Life Magazine; (November 10, 1972).
  5. 5.0 5.1 5.2 Stockdale, Jim and Sybil; In Love and War, (Naval Institute Press, 1984).
  6. 6.0 6.1 Obituary for Evelyn Grubb, Los Angeles Times, January 2006,
  7. List of 2009 Indie Book Awards, "History" Category, Tied for First Place,
  8. *Video of C-SPAN special segment, Author Carol Jose speaks about the book "You Are Not Forgotten: A Family’s Quest for Truth and The Founding of the National League of Families" Includes history of the creation of the POW/MIA flag

External links[]

This page uses Creative Commons Licensed content from Wikipedia (view authors).